
How to Stop Self-Sabotaging (A Guide for Teens and Their Parents)
Self-sabotage usually looks like laziness from the outside and feels like dread from the inside. Here's what's actually happening, and what helps.
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Notes on anxiety, panic, self-sabotage, teen mental health and ADHD. Written the way I'd say it in session.

Self-sabotage usually looks like laziness from the outside and feels like dread from the inside. Here's what's actually happening, and what helps.
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Unstructured summers tend to end with a teen who sleeps until two and feels worse than in June. A loose routine fixes most of it.
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Anxiety waits until the lights go off because that's the first moment all day with nothing to distract you. The fix starts two hours earlier.
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A panic attack peaks in about ten minutes and cannot hurt you, though it does a very convincing impression of something that can.
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Most ADHD systems fail because they need the exact skills the person doesn't have. The ones that work put the effort outside your head.
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